People hate you but they don't hate you twenty four seven. I am sure there will always be some few minutes where they don't. It's only because they are thinking or maybe distracted by something else. On every other occasion, yes, haters are going to hate. We need to bank on the few minutes they don't hate us rather than focus on the rest of the time they do. If they remember the good deeds we've done while in the middle of not hating, they might loosen up on all that loose angst.
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