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If my daughter is qualified for World Youth, should she go?

12/7/2015

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From my previous post, based on all the benefits of playing in World Youth, and the fact that your daughter has fought for it and achieved it, she should go. But every family has their own issues, mainly financial affordability and schedule conflict. 

Most schools don't allow long term absence. If she is already absent from school for many days, due to playing chess tournaments or other activities, it's hard for her to take another two weeks from attending school. Sometime school work load is too heavy, especially for middle school and high school students. Making up homework and tests would be an insurmountable task. The parents may also lack vacation days to accompany the child. If the tournament is at the beginning of the school year, that will be terrible for most students. No teacher will like a student who shows up for one week then gone for two weeks. That's one reason US had smaller delegation in 2014. 

The cost of 5K or more is another problem. Some parents are doing fundraising locally or publicly. But most won't due to privacy or other concerns. 5K can cover at least 5 major tournaments in US (no flight), or most small tournaments in a year. So every parent has to balance the investment and return, making decision after comparison.

If you don't have the above two issues, or you can work around, definitely your daughter should go.
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My child just started to play chess and loves it. What can I do to help him improve?

12/5/2015

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As parents, we can do a lot of things to help our child. I had listed some parents' responsibilities in this earlier post. In addition to responsibilities, what else can we do?

First, get your child more exposure. The more s/he plays or sees chess or even talks about chess, the more s/he will like it, and feels that chess is a part of his/her life and s/he is part of chess. Study, exercises, then hard work will follow more naturally. 

Second, learn chess yourself and play along with him/her. A model chess student at home is much more convincing than thousands of words. You can also have better understanding of your child and his/her games. Feel more sympathy when they lose. You can offer better support when there is a temporary setback.

Third, do a lot of research. Read as much as possible. You want to read bios, news, interviews, blogs, etc. You want to find some role models for your child, and study how those young kids are becoming so good in chess. What's in common? What can you simulate? What can you learn? This is hard work, and takes a lot of time. You will try out some methods, or refine some methods. There are many ways to go to Rome. You want to find one that is repeatable, and executable. 

Fourth, remove negative thoughts from your mind. Any negative thoughts. Our mind is very powerful, especially negative ones. You don't know how far your child can go. Don't limit it with your negative mind or other people's negative opinions. No one starts out with a mark of world champion. Your child need move forward, work hard, and push upward again and again.

Here, I didn't give you any detailed action instructions. You have to find out by yourself.

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Why should my child try to qualify for World Youth?

12/4/2015

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Playing in World Youth costs five grand and up, and requires two-week absence from school. Why pursue it as our goal?

First, it's a confirmation of your child;s achievement. The minimum rating requirement is not easy to satisfy. Your child;s hard work didn't just get wasted.

Second, it's a great opportunity to represent your country, USA, similar to the sportsmen in Olympia. (In fact, there is a chess Olympiad every two years). This is an honor.

Third, it's a chance to visit other countries, learn other cultures, meet kids from other places in the world, and make life-long friends from anywhere who also love to play chess.

Fourth, the intensity of the competition, the positive feedback of the qualification, and the rich experience will motivate your child to work even harder when s/he comes back. The momentum will carry him/her forward. We often see their rating go up a lot in next few months.
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